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Ask and Relax

Manifestation is not an exact science. It does however get stronger and stronger the more you hone the skills that facilitate it, like focusing on desired outcomes, not energizing undesired outcomes, asking for what you want, from the Universe (and the people you want it from), going after what you want with positive and immediate action, and simply relaxing…trusting that what you want will, or even better, already is taking place. You must believe, feel, see, envision, fantasize, personalize and energize your desired outcome. Your energy must be focused there.

You have to control the thoughts you have about this outcome. And then continue to energize the desired outcome throughout your day. The Bible says pray without ceasing. You’re not praying or affirming without ceasing because you don’t believe in your outcome.

You MUST believe in your outcome. Prepare yourself for it. Want a date? Then go take a shower, put on a nice clean outfit, do your make up and hair and go outside of your home (or even try asking someone out). Get ready! And then believe that your date (the one you specify in your mind–not some gotcha boobie prize date) is on his/her way.

If you pray without ceasing because you’re trying to convince yourself or have doubts then you’re just energizing the opposite of your desire, the not having it. And that is what you’ll get because that’s where you’re pouring your energy.

Unfortunately we’re habituated to do just that, to not have faith, to not believe in good for us or our happy endings, such things are even called “fairy tales” and “reality” or “truth” is always something bad. Lies. Bottom line, belief that the truth is something negative is a lie. It’s time to throw that old belief out. Right to the top of the waste heap.

Good outcomes are for you, your reality is positive if you choose for it to be. What you choose it to be is happening in every moment of your life whether you acknowledge this or not. The bad outcomes you have experienced come out of you as much as the good ones. Both. They all come from what you truly in your heart and mind believe will happen. Belief drives behavior, choices, and experience. Period.

Change them, energize different beliefs from those that create undesirable outcome, leads to changed experience. Period. It really is that easy. Refuse to energize that change is hard. It’s not. Breaking habits of thought and belief is what takes effort, but it is doable. You’re having thoughts and acting out beliefs in every moment of your life anyway. You’re doing it no matter what and creating life experiences anyway. So bring your attention to this fact. Mindfulness. Awareness.

Focus yourself on yourself, how you think, what you think. And think about what you want. Your desired outcome. Write it down (3×5 cards are your friends as are small notebooks and pens). Frequently. Take it with you. Write it in margins. Say it to yourself. Believe it. Believe in it. See it feel it taste it live it before it shows up. Get yourself ready NOW!

Allow it. And enjoy it. Its yours and there is nothing you have to do or change about you to deserve it. Its yours for the asking. Ask and it is given.

Dr. Alissa
Life on YOUR Terms!

February 19, 2012 Posted by | Uncategorized | , , , , , | Leave a comment

Your life is all you get

I used to think that other people’s lives were better than mine. I assumed they were anyway. When other people would spend time with their families I was envious as I sat with my own. When other people had experiences or wonderful opportunities I figured they were smarter or harder working or more together or more deserving than me, I assumed this as I experienced my own interesting, wonderful life that others repeatedly told me was the most interesting and amazing they knew of.

I was pondering this the other day and figured out it doesn’t matter how good someone else’s life looks because you’ll (I’ll) never experience any other life than my own. Not appreciating the multitude of blessings in my own life really is insulting to the people and things I attract that bless me every day.

I’m stopping the insult. I am stopping the attempt to pull in the experiences of others (did I mention this is impossible? It is!) and just sit with my own and savor them. If I want my life to be different, I am well aware, that I will need to change my beliefs, thoughts and actions. That’s where the change in circumstances comes from.

I love you…that’s always my starting and ending place!

Doctor Alissa

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November 27, 2011 Posted by | Female, Uncategorized, Woman | , , , , , , , , , , , | Leave a comment